WARNING: I'm breaking protocol today to help out a friend. The links you will encounter below are NOT WORK-SAFE. That's not to say you shouldn't click on them. It means that you will see a boobie or two or 50 behind them and should think twice if you work for a company that wouldn't appreciate you looking at boobies during work hours. If this is the case, I suggest you wait till you get home to proceed further. Then update your resumé and find a new job.
In honor of Women's History Month, I am pleased to present the following interview with one of the most original people I know: Belladonna of Wild Things, a foreign-born entrepreneur whose stable of sexy women has helped spice up many a New York City party. Clean-living and positive-thinking, Bella first introduced herself to me by grabbing my crotch at a Chinese restaurant a couple of years back. A couple of months later, I said I'd treat our group of friends to pizza if she molested the delivery boy. The guy went home with a nice tip and a story his coworkers probably didn't believe. This was after Bella hung out my apartment windows topless and yelled for people to look. She's a character, all right, and a genuinely fun person. I hope you enjoy our chat with her...
1. Bella, tell us a bit about your New York City business.
I've been very lucky to not follow in the footsteps of my so-called "competition," and I now have the most unique stripper service in the New York area. I do things very differently from other people. I actually send the girls you request, use updated, recent and real pictures, as opposed to some of the sites that make me laugh by using Playboy and Penthouse models and pictures of girls who don't work there or are actually 10 years older than shown. But most people appreciate the fact that we do the most outrageous, raunchy, crazy and unforgettable girlie show, with lots of toys, kinky stuff and crowd participation. I only work with girls who really enjoy what they do, and it shows. They're easy-going, down to earth and fun to hang with. We often end up hanging out with the guys rather then running out to do another show. We aren't hustlers, either. I split the money fairly, so they have all the incentive they need to do the full hour show. I actually have beautiful, young girls that are free-spirited and open-minded enough to ... well, you'd have to read about that on my site, it may be too risqué for you.
2. Your personal story reads a little bit like the American Dream. Give us the scoop on your move to the States.
I came to NYC with a dream of being a sex symbol at the age of 14. By 15 I was! I started dancing in clubs, working as a dominatrix, hanging out in clubs and getting "Americanized." By the time I was 19, I had my own agency, starred in many XXX films under the name of Sasha Sweet, posed for men's magazines and became quite a celebrity in New York! Not exactly what I had in mind when I first answered an ad that read "models wanted." I gave up on showbiz, but New York gained a quality bachelor party service! I'm always told by my most grateful customers that they've never been to a party like mine. I no longer do shows myself, but I have the most amazing crew of gorgeous, wild women that make me proud! One of these days I'll write a screenplay, but I'm still doing my research! I wonder who'll play me.
3. What were your goals when you started Belladonnasworld.com, and how's it going so far?
I'm glad someone talked me into having a site back in 2000. Before I used to have to meet people with my "photo album" at coffee shops, where curious on-lookers would try to get a peek. But now I can reach the world with my site, and I can hardly believe the custom video orders we get from all over the world! Japan, Italy, UK, you name it. We ship there! We do custom videos for people with special fetishes and fantasies. They are personalized for the guy who orders it.
4. What are the details behind your members area?
For only $1.99/month you get access to my members area, where you can see very hardcore pix of my girls doing very bad things with each other, their men or themselves! But it's not for you if you are a born-again Christian or just uptight. You may not want to use your mom's computer. Hehe.
5. I know you have some strong feelings about how the sex trade is often held responsible for some of society's ills. Please share them.
It just pisses me off that the religious right is still so in control of so many values that people are force-fed since childhood, but it's OK for the media to sell whatever they please using sex. When some frustrated married guy kidnaps and kills a girl, they say it was because he was frequenting porn sites on the Internet, and his friends ran a site that had "cat fights" on it! Wow! Yep, that must have been it. Hmm, I mean it couldn't just been that his wife was such a fucking douche bag that she wouldn't shave her twat and barely blew him on their wedding night! Who wouldn't go nuts? I know when I don't cum, I get pretty cranky. Jerry Springer brings Neanderthals on the show to humiliate them so he can run for mayor or whatever, and he has the balls to pass judgment on these poor people at the end of the show to look like this moral old fart who never paid for pussy. Yeah, right! A talented fat chick goes on American Idol, and they bump her off because she showed her boobs to feed her child?! I see women breast feed in public all the time, and they can't even sing! You get the point. I could write a book on this stuff, and I just might.
6. What can we generally expect on your News page, and how often do you update it?
I update the pix as often as I can, but definitely monthly. I write my diary, including news, almost every week. When a porn star is in town, or someone special is available that normally isn't, I post it on there. It's great for the guys to check availability and just to see what we're up to! We sometimes throw parties where we invite all those that subscribe to my newsletter (hint, hint) where they get to meet all the girls watch them perform and participate in all kinds of craziness all for a low admissions fee. These parties are invite only, and I may be having one soon.
7. What are some of the things that go on at a Wild Things party?
Well, like I said, lesbian shows are out specialty. We cum fully equipped with toys and props and get very creative, involving only those willing to play. It gets very sexy, funny, erotic and back to outrageous. Many girls do their own special theme. Some have special talents, like shooting things, anal, fisting, etc.. The sky's the limit, but no bestiality! That's where I draw the line! No show is ever really the same, because it depends on the crowd. We try to cater to guys' different vibes, sense of humor or lack thereof etc. Our favorite trick is the "dick-head," where we strap a dildo to the guy's head and let him bob for apples, so to speak. The guys love the double dong, where we do a million and one positions, twisting and turning, all while each end is still in. The strap-on, some squirting ... we are always looking for fun ideas. Got any?
8. Drugs, booze, cigarettes. You must do it all, huh?
I don't drink, smoke, party, get high, eat meat or hold grudges. Bad for your health. I like my "booty rest," wheat grass juice and a colonic every now and then. I always was one of those people who simply can't drink, and I am naturally high and hyperactive, so I don't require stimulants other then sweets and sex!
9. You used to perform yourself, correct? How come you gave it up?
I knew I would eventually stop, but never thought it would be for this reason: I simply found a great guy, and after getting pretty serious in the relationship, I decided I wanted to be for his eyes only. It was completely my decision. I was also getting burned out performing and running the show at the same time. It's a lot of pressure. I no longer like to stay up all night. I felt confident enough in my girls to make me look good that I didn't have to be there anymore to make sure. Like I said, I have some amazing girls!
10. How has the Internet allowed you to be a better businesswoman?
It really opened me up to a whole new world. I wish I would have done it sooner! I was computer illiterate and still learning, but I'm catching on to the potential it has to make money and grow a business. It's done wonders for me.
11. How can girls who are interested in working for you go about contacting you?
Just e-mail me at Bella@belladonnasworld.com or call my cell at 347-392-0680. I'm easy to reach. Send a pic if e-mailing.
12. What's the best way for guys to set up a Wild Things party?
My site is very informative. It answers a lot of questions people have regarding rates, how we work, how to book, who is available, etc. So I recommend that they spend some time browsing through my site. I have a photo album which is free, and it has many pix from our shows showing doing what we do best. I have pix and bios of the girls, so before e-mailing me or calling, try to see all I have to offer and compare with another site. The site is free, except the XXX area. I give personal attention to everyone who calls. I put a lot of effort in planning each party. I don't mind giving guys advice on how to plan the party, where to do it, etc., to save the first-timers from paying too much for a hotel room or private room in a bar when instead they can spend it on us! We go anywhere in the Tri-State area, but the farther we go away from NYC, the higher the rate. Most of our work is in or close to NYC. Our prices are very good considering the value of our service.
Hope to see your smiling drunken faces soon!
Paul's Recap: And there you have it. Wild Things certainly lives up to its name, and I can't stress enough how much of a genuinely decent person Belladonna is. She plays no games, except for the fun ones. Head on over to Belladonnasworld.com to learn more about her business, and tell her you read her interview here when arranging your next party. She'll be happy to help you plan a fun night.
wow.. Looks like I know who I'm booking ;)
Posted by dannycos at March 16, 2004 5:59 PM